69 The speed limit for oral lovemaking

The mouth and the genitalia are the two most pleasure-giving and
pleasure-receiving parts of the human body.  We all know when we eat a delicious diner, or eat a piece of chocolate, or bite into a red sweet
strawberry we are receiving pleasure.  Another experience that gives our bodies pleasure is when our genitalia is touched and felt by our partner's mouth.  In our society there is a negative connotation about Oral sex.  These ideas may come from the way we were raised and how we perceive what oral sex is about.  Many of us have thoughts about oral sex.  We may feel to engage in it  may be a form of very crude behavior.  It is not what nice people participate in.

As we age our bodies start to change.  Women because of the drop in hormones because of  age and menopause may have decrease lubrication to engage in sexual intercourse.  Sexual intercourse may become painful upon penetration and over a period of time she may lose her interest to have sexual intercourse. In men their erections may not be as firm as when they were younger. Or they may need more stimulation to get and maintain and erection.  Oral lovemaking can be very beneficial.

The tongue is a great tool to be used for Oral love making.  We all have them and now is the time to keep and opened mind on what to use them for.  The tongue construction is perfect for oral love making.  Tongues provide their own lubrication in the form of salvia.  Tongues are softer than fingertips and do not have sharp nails to scratch you.  Tongues with practice can be used to give your partner great pleasure and they will appreciate you for it.

What is oral lovemaking?
For women it is called cunnilingus, for men it is called fellatio.  Oral sex
can be performed to various degrees.  Communicate to your partner your likes and dislikes about performing oral sex.  No, one should be forced into doing anything that they do not want to do.  Remember that you still can get AIDS while engaging in oral sex.  For men wear a condom (the recommendation is to wear a non-lubricating condom or get one with flavors). Be careful not to bite though the condom.  For women there are dental dams, small rubber sheets that are placed over the women's genitalia.  

Questions that people have asked about oral love making; regarding smell and taste?  With practice and over time one gets used to the smell (make sure that you are clean before you engage in this sexual activity).  Taste may also be acquired. Discuss with your male partner about ejaculation. If you have a women partner and the scent of a women is not want you want, try using something to cover the taste such as whip cream chocolate sauce or Jell-O.

Foods for thought for Oral love making
Research has been done in what foods make you taste good so your partner will come back for more of you.  So improving your body's taste and smell should be very important to you. In general, nutritionists say that alkaline-based foods such as meats and fish produce a butter, fish taste. Dairy products, which contain a high bacterial putrefaction level create the foulest tasting fluids.  Acidic fruits, such as sweets, fruits, and alcohol give bodily fluids a pleasant, sugary flavor. Chemically processed liquors will cause an extremely acidic taste.  Stay away from asparagus if you are planning to
engage in oral sex.  

Experimentation is key word here.  

Get some books on the techniques of Oral love making.

Get a video that can show you how to do it.

Set the mood for you and your partner.

Communicate with your partner your needs and desires.  

Allow your partner to express their feelings about engaging in oral sex.  
Take a long bath or a warm sensual shower so you will smell fresh and clean for your partner.  

You learn by doing.  Trial and error is what it is all about.  Always keep your sense of humor.  Fun is in practicing.